One of the most powerful fears on Earth that can hold you back from moving to the next level is the fear of being different. I made a short video about how to overcome that fear. I use coaching football as an analogy. I titled the video â€˜Donâ€™t Blink â€“ Part 2.â€™ Itâ€™s a series of videos where I explain the psychology of being different through my best football example â€“ never kicking. Iâ€™m one of the few football coaches on planet Earth who never kick. No field goals, no punting, no point-after-touchdowns. We go for it anywhere on the field and in any situation. Why? The video explains the benefits.
How do people react? The video explains two examples of typical reactions when youâ€™re unconventional, think different, and stick to your own beliefs. Many people, it seems, donâ€™t like different. Different scares them. Makes them mad. Some get angrier when you wonâ€™t become exactly the same as them. Conformity is a powerful force of nature. The video explains two examples of people losing their minds in response to seeing something different. The reason is control â€“ people who fear difference want the fear to go away by forcing different people to be the same as them. They get mad when you donâ€™t think exactly the same as them and do exactly the same as them.
This video explains the madness of people getting mad over nothing. I explain stories of grown adults behaving petulantly because they canâ€™t get their own way and canâ€™t dictate the thoughts and actions of others. These are extremely entertaining stories. All of it is. I use them to send one message â€“ never fear being different. Being unconventional is essential for many reasons, none more important than the peace of mind of being yourself. You canâ€™t hide your true self. There are consequences to hiding your true self. If you try to hide your true self, it wonâ€™t leave you alone. Your true self will fight to get free. Hereâ€™s the video:
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