There is no amount of money in the world that would be worth it for me to get berated by a head coach on the sidelines in front of players, family, fans, and the whole world. What I saw on the sports page was shocking. I can’t imagine putting up with the public humiliation of a head coach screaming at me on the sideline because of a game. It’s a joke. I’ve been blessed to have coached football for free for 40 years in the worst football poverty. I have coached alone for half of my head coaching career. When I have worked as an unpaid coordinator, the first non-negotiable condition I have imposed is no public conflict, not on the sideline, not in coaching meeting. Life is too short to have some asshole scream at you and belittle you in front of people. How the hell can you face your players after being screamed at by your so-called boss who thinks a title is a license to belittle you? This reminds me of why I left two dream jobs in my prime and started 2 businesses from scratch – because of F’d-up workplaces and F’d-up bosses.

I love coaching football but I don’t love it enough to lose all self-respect and dignity by being screamed at by my boss in my workplace. I’ll stick to coaching in football poverty and being my own boss. No amount of money would ever be worth being a verbal punching bag privately, or worse, publicly. One reason why I started Blunt Talk Podcast is to be my own boss and do and say what my heart tells me without a boss treating my like a child. My sympathy to anyone who is stuck in a workplace where a boss treats you like shit.

Blunt Talk Podcast has been privileged to have had 112 guests in the past 17 months. Each one is a soul-lifter. www.BluntTalk.Libsyn.com All 112 episodes are free, permanently archived downloads compliments of X Fitness. Every episode includes an opening motivational speech and a Top 1000 Workout Song of the Week. Each guest, each episode is guaranteed to lift. X Fitness is committed to lift, to the celebration of Good Inspirational News Only. There’s enough depressing news and enough depressing people. We won’t add to it. Here is the link to Blunt Talk Podcast: www.BluntTalk.Libsyn.com   

Blessings & all good things.

#peace

Gino Arcaro M.Ed., B.Sc., Level 3 NCCP (Nat’l Coaching Certification Program)

Head coach – Niagara X-men football

Owner – X Fitness Inc.

Host – BLUNT TALK PODCAST http://blunttalk.libsyn.com/

www.ginoarcaro.com

www.swatfootball.com

Gino Arcaro is a widely published author. His website, blog, Youtube channel, and list of SWAT FOOTBALL Books are at: www.ginoarcaro.com

His books include:

Soul of a Lifter, 4th & hell: seasons 1 and 2, SWAT Offense, SWAT Defense, SWAT Tackling Video & e-book, X Fitness Workout System, and a 3 business book series called Soul of an Entrepreneur

http://www.ginoarcaro.com/soulofanentrepreneur/#.U1Xmfmco_IU.

He also has written 20 editions of 6 law enforcement academic textbooks. A new 8-volume interrogation book series will be released in 2014. And just released, a new children’s book called “BE FIT – DON’T QUIT.” The first stage of his new Blunt Talk e-books is now for sale. His latest book on human potential called “Hashtag Peace” is at the editing stage. He is writing three other non-fiction novels book called The Mystery of Murder: Working with the dead, Midnight Shift from Hell, and Another Bar Fight.

His SWAT FOOTBALL BOOKS are at:

http://www.amazon.com/SWAT-Offense-Man-Gino-Arcaro/dp/0991685520

http://www.amazon.ca/SWAT-Defense-Football-System-ebook/dp/B00LAGPP08